Why can't men be straight forward with girls if they are only after intimacy, why can't they say, before we start this, i want to let you know that it's purely going to be intimacy and no other stuff involved rather than act like you want a relationship with them and have intimacy with them, then never call them or avoid them. Why cant you just say the truth and stop leading us on, thinking we can't handle the truth, Trust me there ARE girls out there, who just want intimacy, guys tell me why?